Guys, is there any hope for me?

Im not a guy, but a mom of a 21 year old son that sounds very much like you. He has a big heart and it gets broken by people taking advantage. Be glad that you learned now that your boyfriend did not respect you. He should have respected your feelings to wait and be glad you did. Virginity is something special because you can only have your first time ONCE. Save that for the one, the man you want to spend the rest of your life with. It will be so special. Plus you do not want an unplanned pregnancy. My son says that it seems all the girls want guys that treat them bad. You see he is very nice and treats the girlfriends that he has had very good. Then his older brother treats girls poorly and he always has girlfriends. It is confusing that my son that is truely a nice guy and is the one that is alone. He gets pretty depressed about it at times. It is hard to explain...I guess the good guys are hard to find since most girls want "bad guys."